Showing posts with label change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label change. Show all posts

April 14, 2019

Being 30 and How I Finally Embraced It

I just turned 30 earlier this month. And truth be told, I fucking dreaded it! I was so pressured with the fact that I had nothing to show for despite living three decades in this world already! I try not to compare myself with my peers as it would be quite unfair, mostly to me. Hahaha

But I guess it was inevitable especially since social media has taken over and I wasn't even very active in the cybersphere, until now that is. 😂

August 15, 2014

Just So You Know: Changes

"People change" is one of the tritest expression ever! And though it's a given, some changes are just heart breaking. The world has revolved in a faster pace. You cannot hold on to the things or the people, even if they were once a vital part of your life. Not all things of yesterday would remain significant today or even tomorrow for that matter. 

Though some rejoices in these changes, as they are for the better, some are not so keen on embracing them. Think, alcoholic to alcoholic-free or you girlfriend crying no more over a douche. I had my fair share of good changes and had a hell of a time with the bad ones. The good thing about all these was that I got to learn and grew up, even if just a little bit. You see, change is a vital part of life. We cannot continue to stay in the same place, like a flower you need to be exposed to the elements and go through a process for you to bloom.

I guess it all comes down to one's ability to adapt. Life itself does not happen for the sole purpose of being spent. I mean, you don't really do the same thing twice, right? There would always be something that would make it different. Life is meant to be lived in a daily basis when each moment counts. Life is a learning venue, whereas we discover, we realize, we grow. Change is inevitable but there's no need to force it. Everything will just fall into place, you'll see.